If you are creative enough to make a problem, be creative enough to find a soluti...
Outer Success Magnifies Our Feelings
Money, recognition, marriage, children, a great job or any other form of outer success is like a magnifying glass that is turned on your inner feelings. If you are already peaceful, you will feel more peaceful. If you are already happy and loving, you will be happier and more loving. If you are already confident, you will be more confident. On the other hand, to the degree that you are not happy, the joy, love, confidence or peace in your life...
Commitment Fear
Most people who have ever been divorced or gone through a major breakup tend to become somewhat (commitment phobic).
Avoiding commitment because you have been hurt emotionally is as unnecessary as if you decided you are never going to eat out again because you got food poisoning in one bad restaurant ! Just choose your restaurant more carefully.
When you make more intelligent choices, relationships become a source of joy, not heartache.
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